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Friends went to a concert without inviting me WHEN IT'S MY FAVORITE ARTIST

So I don't have many friends (and my friends know this) and a HUGE artist came into town tonight and my friends all went together without inviting me when they KNOW it's my favorite artist of all time.

I've been asking if anyone wants to go and they were silent for a while and then they said they were going with a cousin. I was upset, but shrugged it off. Whatever.

Then I seen on social media their cousin couldn't go, and they took a new co worker INSTEAD OF ASKING ME.

I'm just fucking annoyed because I've always complained how I've only gone to 1 concert my entire life and I want to go to more, and they do this...

I don't think it was malicious, but more inconsiderate. They always say how much they care about me and compliment me, and then do this???

Everytime we hangout they always come up with excuses on why they can't drive, so I always drive. And now I'm just like SUPER annoyed because I have literally sacrificed so much for when we even normally hangout and they couldn't save like ONE SEAT to ask me?

I just want to stop talking to them now and go find new friends, but I can't even do that because I'm such an anxious, stressed, and introverted mess.

Humans are just fucking annoying and inconsiderate.

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4 points · 5 days ago

Hate to sound like the asshole but ‘they’re just not that into you’.

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Original Poster1 point · 5 days ago

Not that asshole at all. I probably needed to hear that. Thanks.

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