Press J to jump to the feed. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts

NAH - I wouldn’t say this makes you an asshole....but it’s a pretty insane thing to do. Cutting off someone for not saying happy birthday is a bit extreme. And you label it “ex drama” when it wasn’t really drama at all until you made it so. He may have forgotten, he may have not. But seems odd to cut a mate off over soemthing like this

Comment removed by moderator4 days ago

That’s an odd stipulation. Why is that?

just get a job. Tell your mum you have a job and will then be paying rent and then she can pay for daycare for the kids with that money. All your replies just sound like excuses

As long as it is clean and neat I am not fussed either way. You do you

Did he die though? Where’s the rest of the video.

YTA- as people have said above. Saying you can have someone over is very different from having someone literally move in. If you want to live with your bf then get a place with him.

YTA- friendship code 101. You don’t fuck your best mates ex girlfriends.

8.8k

I am a single mum to a 9 year old. He currently is (to my knowledge) very naive. He doesn’t swear, he doesn’t have a console (coming this xmas) so he doesn’t speak to his friends outside of school. He has never known me to have a boyfriend. I just want to be prepared for the years when he starts becoming sexually aware. Is it way too early now? What can I do without a man around to have this discussion. Is it a case of shut the door and give him privacy (he always walks around naked and sees no issue in this currently) or should I start talking about his body changing soon. I just want to make sure I do it right and don’t fuck him up forever

EDIT: thank you for all your comments. This has been very enlightening. I am shocked at how young most of the comments are. I fully expected it to be around the 11/12 mark. However, I feel much more prepared now than I did previously. Some excellent advise received. I am also sorry to anyone this triggered, I’ve read some sad stories and I did not mean to bring this up for you. I am sorry that happened to you and I hope things are better now, I thank you for sharing though. X

8.8k
2.2k comments

Great work! Isolating him from friends is a great way to parent.

see more
Original Poster1 point · 10 days ago

Where does it say I am isolating him from Friends? He just doesn’t have an Xbox yet so he is not online talking to friends late at night. He goes to the park in summer and has sleep overs. But he has no internet access....

You don't let him socialise outside of school is what you said. You should clarify instead of getting defensive

see more
Original Poster0 points · 9 days ago

That isn’t what was said though.

Load more comments

Is there a local metal bar near you? That’s a good shout. Also, your “type” would likely Consider themselves not in the top 10% either. (Most people consider themselves out if others leagues) Everyone has a type. Likelihood is, you are someone’s. Just get out there.

Above and beyond cute. It is totally adorable. But I find when you say this to men they feel patronised and like stupid kids. When really I just mean “I really love how you’re so nervous around me and I can’t wait to make you cum in 3.5 seconds” but that’s a sentence you can’t say in public so you say “aw, you’re so cute”

Can I live with you please

Me too, how peaceful and amazing this would be 💕💕

see more

Total bliss.

So how does it go? Can you not have sex at all?

I cannot take even a single drag from a cigarette, if I do I would be back where I was a year and half ago. Is it like that?

see more

Yh. I cannot have sex at all. I find it hard to talk to men coz I visualise them in totally disgusting ways all the time. Like a complete cut off. Plan is to slowly introduce it soon but I know I’m not ready coz it’s pretty much all I think about all day everyday. T has to be the worst addiction to have as a female. And not bigging myself up, but I am conventionally attractive (long blonde hair, massive tits, small waist, big eyes) and being a sex addict is basically too easy. And everyone just thinks you’re a slag (I have high standards so I’ve always preferred being a slut to a slag, slags have daddy issues. I just love cock) In my prime I could have sex with anyone I wanted. Must’ve broken up so many families. That’s when I decided I needed to stop and get control. Been 4 months of celibacy, I want to go a year. Then I think I will be in control

Here I was thinking my addiction to porn and Masturbation was bad. Would being monogamous with someone help?

see more

I have no idea. nice guys don’t want a wild sex beast as a girlfriend. I’m a strong character. So I attract strong guys....who I DO NOT want to be in a relationship with. Ideally I’d find a nice guy who could handle my wild ways. But likely I’d just scare him off. I think it’s a myth that all men want a girl who fucks like a pornstar. Most good guys literally shake around me. I find it adorable, but men are much more sensitive than we give them credit for. And feeling like you’re a let down is constant feedback. “Why would you want a guy like me, I can’t satisfy you, my dicks too small” penis anxiety is massive in men. I could honestly tell so many stories about men.

Load more comments

That’s a close knit texture - Paul Hollywood porn

YTA- what difference does it make to you. You sound callous as fuck. In honesty I think his is probably one of the nastiest things someone has ever written and been totally oblivious. You say “but that’s not the point” what exactly is the point? Are you so insecure you have to compete with a dead mans very recently deceased wife. I hope the comments match this and you seriously reevaluate your life. If it is an issue move the fuck out you. And let the man grieve in peace .This has infuriated me.

YTA- being broke does not mean you just get free samples of everything. I couldn’t imagine someone cleaning my shoes anyway, the thought of expecting someone to do it for free with no intention of purchasing or tipping....Yh, YTA

“Free sample”. No way is HTA. If I worked at Walmart and handed out samples of food, should I expect tips??

see more

No I suppose not. But a service like shoe shining is an odd thing. To give out for free. I’d never let anyone shine my shoes for me, feels super weird to me

Just carry on talking to her as normal? What’s the issue here. Thinking of stopping the gym because a girl (who likely thought of you as a mate) has a boyfriend?

We need more information on your appearance. Do you dress in a generally “normal” way. Are you conventionally attractive? If you don’t know, then it’s possibly something you are seeing that maybe isn’t happening

Original Poster1 point · 11 days ago

I wear well fitted clothing, Jcrew type clothing. I've asked female friends on how attractive I am in their opinion, rated 7 usually, 8 by nice girls. But I know when girls are flirting with me, this look is just strange like a deer in headlight look staring at me. I can't make it out to whether they're put off by me or what.

see more

Ate you like, crazy tall?

How could you ever possibly think that you could ask your step dad to tidy your room? You didn’t but you wanted to. Shut your door, ultimately it’s your step mums dog and even though you have nothing to do with the dog it is clear your step mum appreciates it. And she is unable to clean up after it, so of course, you should help. Including around the house too.

Men are also often ignored or neglected when they try to speak out about being raped (especially by women) or physically abused in a relationship.

I’m not saying that there’s no problems for women, as there are and many are horrible. But I feel as if women’s issues have a lot of representation where as men’s issues do not.

see more

This is not true. Men do not come forward because of men, not women. Pull up any article about a female teacher raping a school boy. Any comments that do not call it rape are from men, women are supportive.

Cookies help us deliver our Services. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More.